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Ki Teitzei – A Mitzvah that you can only fulfill by forgetting!

Ki Teitzei (Deut 21:10-25:19)

A Mitzvah that you can only fulfill by forgetting!

by Dr. Jacques Abourbih

This prasha is unlike any others.   First of all its title Ki Teitzei bears a strange resemblance to another earlier one in Shemot – Ki Tisa. The resemblance is not just coincidental. They share the same ethical themes and practical rules to live in a society. But that is not all.

Chief Rabbi Lord Sacks reports this event: “One story in particular made a deep impression on me. Someone once asked Moses Montefior, “Sir Moses, what are you worth?” He thought for a while and named a figure. “But surely,” said his questioner, “your wealth must be much more than that.” With a smile, Sir Moses replied, “You didn’t ask me how much I own. You asked me how much I am worth. So I calculated how much I have given to charity thus far this year.”

Lofty as the Mitzvah of Tzedakah is, of all 613 Mitzvot incumbent upon us there is a strange one that you can fulfill only by being negligent, and when you become aware of your negligence you do nothing to rectify that shortcoming. It is the mitzvah of Shichechah, the mitzvah of “forgetting”.

“When you reap your harvest… and forget a sheaf in the field, do not go back to fetch it; it shall be for the stranger, for the orphan and for the widow ( 24:19)”

The Mitzvah of Shichechah (“forgetting”) opens a floodgate for similar mitzvoth with the common theme of sharing with those who have nothing.

“When you beat the olives from your trees, do not go over the branches a second time … or when you harvest the grapes in your vineyard, do not go over the vines again. Leave what remains for (the most vulnerable and poorest among you,) the stranger, the orphan and the widowed.”

Notice that the Torah does not mention first the widow or the orphan. It seems “the stranger amongst you” is the weakest and most vulnerable. “Remember that once upon a time you were that weak and vulnerable stranger in Egypt.”

Let’s go back to Shemot Ki Tisa. Hashem requires that when taking a census every Jew must contribute a half-shekel as atonement for participating in the census.  By contrast in Canada, until recently at least you were fined for NOT participating in the census.

So what happens if you don’t cave in to Hashem demands and don’t pay that ransom of a half-shekel for participating in the census? That story is told in the second book of Samuel chapter 24.

The possible reason why Hashem demands atonement and there are several, is in this week’s Parsha. The assumption beneath every census is: there is strength in numbers.

Not so, says this week’s parsha Ki Teitzei: “Your real worth is only what you are willing to share with others, not how many you are.”

If you believe there is strength in numbers you will be disappointed. We are a tiny people; one fifth of one percent of the world population, an insignificant in number. This small fraction would be acceptable random counting error in the Chinese census. Yet we Jews have contributed to humanity throughout history in ways disproportionate to our numbers.

Perhaps for this reason the Torah says:

“The LORD did not set his affection on you and choose you because you were more numerous than other peoples, for you were the fewest of all peoples.” Deuteronomy 7:7

May we continue to merit Hashem’s love for the children of Israel.

Shabbat Shalom

Jacques Abourbih

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Friday Night Talks

FNTP: Ki Teiztei – Jacques

This week Jacques Abourbih will be speaking as part of the Friday Night Talks Program on the topic of “A Mitzvah that you can only fulfill by forgetting!”

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Prayer Services

Prayer Services for Ki eitzei – August 20, 2010

Friday Evening Services are at 6:30PM at the Goldstein residence. Service includes singing, Friday Night Talk Program & Kiddush.

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Important Times

Shabbat Times for Ki Teitzei – August 20 & 21, 2010

Candle Lighting Friday Night – 8:08PM

Havdallah Saturday Night – 9:16PM

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Holidays Interest

Little Sister – Achot Ketana

This poem was written in the 13th century by Abraham Hazzan Gerondi of the Catalonian town of Herona. The poem consists of eight metrical stanzas; the acrostic gives the name of the author “Abram Ḥazzan.”

The opening words of the hymn are taken from the Shir Ha sherim (Song of Songs 8:8)”We have a little sister”: “We have a little sister, and as yet she has no breasts. What shall we do for our sister on the day when she is spoken for?” Verse 8:8, as for that matter the whole of Shir Hasherim is full of ambiguities, double meanings, and circular references that exploit numerous meanings. Here is the opening stanza of Abraham Hazzan’s poem “Little Sister”. Perhaps would it help you to formulate your own connection between the Little Sister of the poet Abraham Hazzan and the Little Sister in the Song of Solomon if I told you that Achot Ketanah is sung on erev Rosh Hashanah? The “Little Sister” is perhaps a symbol of the soul of the world or the children of Israel. The little sister prepares her prayers And intones her praises. O G-d, we beseech Thee, Heal now her infirmities. May the year and its misfortunes Now cease altogether.

Jacques Abourbih

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A Lonely Levantine Shabbat

This is the Story of another Synagogue half a world away, also called Shaar Hashamayim. I had my bar mitzvah in it. The article mentions R. Albert Gabbai as a young boy in the choir at Shaar. I remember singing with him in the choir at the close of Yom Kippur the Sephardi Hymn El Nor ou’Alila—the same one Isaac Abitbol and I used to sing in days by at the Shaar in Sudbury.

The author Lucette Lagnado is the sister of an old classmate in Egypt. She wrote a highly acclaimed book about the history of her family’s emigration from the iron inferno of Egypt. Lucette works as editor at the Wall Street Journal.  I correspond with her periodically.

Dr. Jacques Abourbih

Original article: http://www.thejewishweek.com/special_sections/text_context/lonely_levantine_shabbat

A Lonely Levantine Shabbat

In Cairo, the once-crowded Shar Hashamaim is restored, but there are almost no Jews left to pray in it.

Lucette Lagnado
Special to the Jewish Week
Wednesday, April 28, 2010

“I make it a point to go to shul on Saturday morning, and that wasn’t going to change when I found myself in Cairo last summer. Yes, it is in an Arab country, but it is my Arab country, where I was born and where of late I have found myself traveling again and again. There is no one there for me — the 80,000 Jews who once lived in Egypt are pretty much gone, as are all my relatives. Cairo, to paraphrase Janet Flanner, was yesterday.

While at a festive gathering at the home of the United States ambassador, I asked if there were services I could attend that coming Saturday. Everyone shrugged, but then the head of Egypt’s virtually nonexistent Jewish community, Carmen Weinstein, spoke up to say there was certainly a place where I could pray, and I thought I detected a certain edge in her voice.

I could go, she informed me, to the magnificent central synagogue, Shar Hashamaim — The Gates of Heaven. My parents were married there back in World War II, and I have always had a romantic attachment to it. When I’d first returned to Egypt in 2005, I saw little beauty in the careworn massive stone building. Like most of the synagogues in Cairo, it looked like the house in the Addams Family: dark, frayed, forbidding.

But since that time, Weinstein had overseen a major renovation, encouraged and embraced by the American Jewish Committee, to restore the temple to its former splendor. Hundreds of thousands of dollars were apparently spent by the Egyptian government to fix it up, and there’d been a formal ceremony marking its reopening. The Gates of Heaven has no rabbi and no regular minyan, but come certain holidays, the handful of Jews who remained in Cairo, many quite elderly, venture out and reunite in the sanctuary.

One Saturday morning last June, my husband and I made our way to downtown Cairo, the hub of what had once been an intensely glamorous city; the synagogue had been situated steps from delightful patisseries, fashionable department stores, cinemas and boutiques. But, of course, that was when Jews and a multitude of Europeans — French, Swiss, Italians, British and Belgians — made Cairo one of the most cosmopolitan cities in the world. Since these “foreigners” were thrown out or forced out, Cairo had become hopelessly provincial. The elegant stores gave way to cheap emporiums. And the Gates of Heaven was essentially abandoned — there were no Jews left to pray.

I spotted a small, armed militia outside the temple’s doors. They looked suspiciously at us, but I was ready for that: Egypt likes to post armed guards outside all its Jewish sites no matter how dusty. Gotta give them credit. How many other Muslim countries protect their Jewish sites with such diligence? Once we showed our passports, we were free to enter.

The synagogue was poorly illuminated, but it was clear much work had been done to restore it to its original splendor. The marble steps leading to the Holy Ark were gleaming. And the wooden pews that once accommodated hundreds of worshippers had some of their original luster. On the bima, I saw an open Torah scroll.

There were all the elements of a great synagogue except one: people.

I went up on the bima and put my hand on the scroll. Then, I climbed the marble stairs and kissed the velvet curtain that covered the Holy Ark. I looked around me, unsure what to do next.

I felt excruciatingly lonely. Though I have prayed the Sabbath morning prayers a thousand times, I didn’t feel I could recite them anymore, not without the soothing voice of a rabbi or a cantor or fellow worshippers. It all seemed heartbreakingly pointless.

The Gates of Heaven had once accommodated several hundred worshippers, and its women’s section upstairs alone had scores of seats. I had been told the strict separation between men and women only encouraged romance; young men would stealthily look up as pretty girls dressed in their loveliest clothes would preen as close to the balcony as possible, to make sure they were noticed by their intended. There were flirtations and matches and fateful encounters, every Shabbat.

I grabbed a prayer book and flipped to the page of the Amidah, the silent devotional, and prayed quietly. Then, after taking one last walk around the empty sanctuary, I picked up my passport from the guard in the booth, took my husband by the hand, and left.

I could think of nothing more to do on this lonely Levantine Sabbath.

*     *    *     *

In the last couple of months, we’ve heard that Egypt is repairing more synagogues; indeed, that they expended funds to restore the most venerable temple of all, Rav Moshe, in the Old Jewish Quarter, where Maimonides was said to have studied and prayed some 800 years earlier. Egyptian Jews, myself included, regularly went to Rav Moshe when they were sick, hoping to be healed. I traveled to Cairo again last month to visit Rav Moshe and was impressed by the meticulous restoration. The Egyptians have also begun work on a broken-down Karaite shul and vowed to renovate some other once-grand institutions.

It all has seemed pretty wonderful to me — an Arab country faithfully restoring its Jewish institutions? It was as if my most fervent wish was coming true. Or was it? Is fixing up the empty, abandoned Jewish properties in countries devoid of Jews really worthwhile?

Looking back at my less-than-transcendent experience at Shar Hashamaim, I wonder if what I did had any meaning. Perhaps I could have communed with God nearly as well by staying in my room at the Marriott and davening there. It would have been more cheerful.

In Philadelphia, Rabbi Albert Gabbai of Congregation Mikveh Israel, who was born in Egypt and even sang in the choir of Gates of Heaven as a child, echoed the view that repairing it and other synagogues is essential — if only to remind the world, he says, that once upon a time Jews were there and in substantial numbers.

Since he left Egypt decades ago — after spending some years in prison camp, which is what happened to Jewish men who lingered — Rabbi Gabbai has had no desire whatsoever to go back, except to his synagogue, except to Gates of Heaven. He embraced my decision to pray there. “It means that you are reclaiming the place for Jews — for you as a Jew, and for all the Jews — [saying that] it belongs to them.”

Not everyone would agree. Rabbi Gerald Skolnik of the Forest Hills Jewish Center casts a tepid eye on efforts to refurbish synagogues in places where there are no Jews; from Poland to Egypt, he wonders what is the point other than to attract tourist dollars.

“Is it better for a synagogue to be rehabilitated instead of being torn down or made into a mosque? Halachically, yes. But what is sadder than seeing an empty synagogue?”

Rabbi Elie Abadie, who presides over the Edmond J. Safra congregation in New York, staunchly argues in favor of restoring these lost synagogues. As a native of Lebanon, he has suffered the heartbreak of watching grand houses of worship destroyed or converted or sold or abandoned — as most were in and around Beirut. He passionately believes that the governments that drove out their Jews “have the financial and ethical responsibility to restore the synagogues.”

As for my woebegone feeling on that Cairo Sabbath, he says, “If a person is praying in a synagogue — albeit empty — those prayers are at a higher level and more meaningful because the synagogue maintains its sanctity. Even if there is no minyan [quorum of 10 men] the prayers are at a higher level,” Rabbi Abadie contends. God, he says, was of course there in the original Great Temple, and then in the Second Temple. “Once the Temple was destroyed, its sanctity was transferred to all synagogues all over the world,” he said. When a synagogue is built, he said, “it is believed that God enters it and remains there,” till eternity.

I found comfort in hearing that while I may have felt desperately alone that Sabbath morning, God was indeed there beside me in that great cavernous space in Cairo.”

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Tehillim

Tehillim

The Tehillim (Book of Psalms) has occupied a special place in our heart throughout the centuries. Perhaps Jews faced communal tragedies from persecutions in the ghettos or the Mellah. Perhaps it was pogroms, or experiencing personal trials, illnesses, or death. Collective or private pains have found in this unique source comfort and hope that Hashem will not abandon us.

Some Psalms in particular have acquired special meaning, like Psalm 121, the one that says: אֶשָּׂא עֵינַי, אֶל-הֶהָרִים– מֵאַיִן, יָבֹא עֶזְרִי, I will lift up mine eyes unto the mountains: from whence shall my help come?

Psalm 121 was chosen to be read by Rabbi Shearyashuv Cohen, the chief rabbi of Haifa in the presence of King Hussein 1st, Yitzhak Rabin and President Bill Clinton on October 24, 1994 on the occasion of the signing of the Peace Accord between Jordan and Israel. Perhaps it was premonition of history as it would unfold in the years that followed that motivated Rabbi Cohen to choose this particular psalm: The next verse says:    עֶזְרִי, מֵעִם ה My help comes from the L-RD

And then of course there is Psalm 23.

I bet you have never thought or looked at Psalm 23 in this way even though you heard it again and again, or even recited it perhaps yourself.

Take another look at it again:

מִזְמוֹר לְדָוִד: -ה רֹעִי, לֹא אֶחְסָר. 1 A Psalm of David. Hashem is my shepherd; I shall not want.

That speaks of the personal relationship that Hashem has with you

ב בִּנְאוֹת דֶּשֶׁא, יַרְבִּיצֵנִי; עַל-מֵי מְנֻחוֹת יְנַהֲלֵנִי. 2 He makes me to lie down in green pastures; He leads me beside the still waters.

That is His promise to you of rest and refreshment in the midst of the turbulence in your life.

ג נַפְשִׁי יְשׁוֹבֵב; יַנְחֵנִי בְמַעְגְּלֵי-צֶדֶק, לְמַעַן שְׁמוֹ. 3 He restores my soul; He guides me in straight paths for His name’s sake.

That is His shining light that guides you when all else around you is darkness…

ד גַּם כִּי-אֵלֵךְ בְּגֵיא צַלְמָוֶת, לֹא-אִירָא רָע– 4 Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil,

…Even in a world that makes no sense to you anymore.

כִּי-אַתָּה עִמָּדִי; שִׁבְטְךָ וּמִשְׁעַנְתֶּךָ, הֵמָּה יְנַחֲמֻנִי. For Thou art with me;
Thy rod and Thy staff, they comfort me.

This is His eternal promise that He will never abandon you.

ה תַּעֲרֹךְ לְפָנַי, שֻׁלְחָן–    נֶגֶד צֹרְרָי; 5 Thou prepared a table before me in the presence of mine enemies

“Why are all these things happening to me?”  Hashem is testing you…

דִּשַּׁנְתָּ בַשֶּׁמֶן רֹאשִׁי, כּוֹסִי רְוָיָה. Thou have anointed my head with oil; my cup runs over.

For even in these difficult moments though it seems not, Hashem is healing you.

ו אַךְ, טוֹב וָחֶסֶד יִרְדְּפוּנִי– כָּל-יְמֵי חַיָּי; 6 Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life

This is an affirmation of your faith in Hashem’s eternal goodness,…

וְשַׁבְתִּי בְּבֵית-הand I shall dwell in the house of the LORD

And His assurance to you that you shall dwell in the shelter of His protection…

לְאֹרֶךְ יָמִים. Forever.

May it be so!

The word mellah refers to a walled Jewish quarter of a city in Morocco, an analogue of the European ghetto. It has come to mean for Sephardim Jews a “salted, cursed ground”. On May 14, 1465, Jewish inhabitants of the Mellah of Fez were nearly all killed. Jews in Arab and Muslim countries suffered episodic attacks at the hands of their Muslim neighbors.

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FNTP: Shoftim – Judi

This week Judi Cartman will be speaking as part of the Friday Night Talks Program

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Prayer Services

Prayer Services for Shoftim – August 13, 2010

Friday Evening Services are at 6:30PM at the Goldstein residence. Service includes singing, Friday Night Talk Program & full Kiddush.

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Shabbat Times for Shoftim – August 13 & 14, 2010

Candle Lighting Friday Night – 8:20PM

Havdallah Saturday Night – 9:28PM